Forgot to Read Prayers Before Relation, What Should I Do?

If You Forgot To Read Prayer Before Related
What if you forget to read the prayer before having sex? Do you have to read the prayer afterwards? Trim's ...


Bismillah was shalatu was salamu 'ala Rasulillah, wa ba'du,

Reading prayers before relating has many benefits. Among them,

First , as the veil of the nakedness of the jinn

In the hadith of Abu Said al-Khudri radi 'anhu , the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said,

Wearing between the eyes of the jinn and between the nakedness of the sons of Adam, if the man took off his garment to say:

"The veil between the eyes of the jinn and the aurat of the adam (man) is that when one takes off his clothes, he reads: bismillah. (Narrated by Ibn Adi, at-Thabrani in Mu'jam al-Ausath-al-Mathalib al-Aliyah, al-Hafidz Ibn Hajar, No. 37).

Second , the Son of the relationship is protected by God

In the hadith of Ibn Abbas radhiallahu 'anhuma , that the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa sallam said,

" If one of you (husband) wants to associate with his wife, and he reads the prayer:

Bismamullah, Allah, Junbina al-Shaykh, beware of me

"By the name of Allah, O Allah protect us from the devil (satan) and keep the devil from the provision which You bestow upon us."

If God destined (birth) the child of the relationship, then Satan will not be able to harm the child forever. " (Narrated by Bukhari 141 and Muslim 1434)

What if forget?

If you forget, of course, the opportunity to benefit above is lost. However, this prayer is not obligatory, and there is no kaffarah if left behind. And there is no suggestion to read it in the middle of a tune or after a tympanic.

In the Syabakah Islamiyah Fatwa stated,

This du'aa 'is a must, and it is not obligatory

This prayer is recommended and not mandatory. Therefore, whoever leaves it, even if intentionally, is innocent. ( Fatwa Syabakah Islamiyah, no. 146507)

Will the child be rebellious?

If God was a child, would his son be rebellious?

One of the reasons to protect the child from Satan's temptation is to read a prayer before engaging in a body relationship.

It's just that it needs to be understood, that it is only one reason. That is, there are still other causes that shape the character of a child.

The cleric asserted that this hadith does not show that every child born from the results of bodily relationships which were previously preceded by prayer, he will become a capable human being, free from every sin and temptation of Satan.

Because every incident has a cause and there is a barrier. The efforts of parents, who pray when they want to have sex, are one reason that the child survives the temptations of Satan. However, in the course of his life, there are many barriers and other causes, which make this child unable to get rid of the temptations of Satan, so he does immorality. (Taisirul Alam Syarah Umdatul Ahkam, 1/588)

Therefore, it is not a guarantee that every child born of a bodily relationship that begins with prayer will surely be a pious child. Likewise, vice versa, is not a guarantee, every child born from an intercourse without beginning a prayer, or even born from an illegitimate relationship (zina), will surely become a child of Satan, or an army of demons.

Among the efforts that parents can make is to pay attention to education during the child's developmental period. Allah says,

يا أيها الذين آمنوا قوا أنفسكم وأهليكم نارا وقودها الناس والحجارة

"O believers, guard yourself and your family from the fire of hell whose fuel is human and stone." (QS. At-Tahrim: 6)

Including praying for families to always take care, and be guided. As the prayer that Allah mentioned in the letter al-Furqan when God told about the character of ibadurrahman,

والذين يقولون ربنا هب لنا من أزواجنا وذرياتنا قرة أعين واجعلنا للمتقين إماما

"And those who say:" Our Lord, grant us our wives and our offspring as the comfort of our hearts, and make us a priest for the cautious. " (Surah al-Furqan: 74) .

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